Since Sam was growing inside of me, I have wondered if Mike's parents loved him more than we did. I remember Steve shedding tears the first time he saw me with my Sam baby bump. I remember Dede sneaking upstairs to take a peak at my Sam baby bump while I napped. They were their the day he was born and were absolutely glowing as they got their first look at him.


Two weeks after Sam was born we traveled to Raleigh to stay with Papa and Dede for his first Christmas. The night we arrived Sam was inconsolable. It was one of those parenting moments where you try everything to calm your child and you fail every time. I breast fed him like 70 times, rocked him, sang to him, we took him for a car ride, picked up infant gas medicine. Nothing worked. I sat up in a bedroom and just gave up. Mike brought him down to Dede and she just rocked him for hours and hours while he cried. They sat together all night long and he finally fell asleep on her.
Papa and Dede came to visit us often in Charleston and every time they did they insisted Mike and I go out. These were really the only date nights we had since we had no family in town. I know they secretly wanted us out of the way so they could have Sam all to themselves. He has always been attached to me and tends to interact with EVERYONE better if I am not in the room. ;)

Papa and Dede stayed with Sam for our first weekend away from him. They stayed with Sam for a week so Mike and I could go on our honeymoon. They gave us their timeshare that year so we could afford to go on a honeymoon. They stayed with Sam again the next weekend so Mike and I could attend a wedding in Madison, WI. They never say no. They always drop everything to help us.

When Mike visited my hospital room on July 26th, 2013, and told me that one of Sam's eyes was not focusing, the first thing I said was, "he needs an MRI today." The second thing I said was, "please call your parents and see if they can come early." Of course they came right away. I don't remember a lot about our time in the hospital, but I do remember they were there with us.
I honestly am still not sure who loves Sam the most. I have said to several people when describing Mike's parents that they were the only people I was certain would jump into oncoming traffic if Sam asked them to.
